The behavioral card deck that reveals the truth about your BS (Belief System); how it affects your confidence and your ability to enjoy life to the fullest.

 

The analogy:  Let's face it - your well planned trip could land up ruined if there is a big pile of BS blocking your road!  But if you don't clean it up, you'll get stuck in BS or find it clinging to you for a very long time.  And that's not a pleasant way to travel through life!  BS is your Belief System and this deck is a simple yet powerful tool designed to help you clean up any harmful BS that may postpone your trip or prevent you from fully enjoying your life journey.

The reality:  Eighty percent of your peers will never reach their fullest potential or feel genuinely happy.  Many will spend their entire lives feeling unfulfilled and inadequate.  And most belief they have very little control over their circumstances so they just accept what life throws at them.  The fact is they need to learn what the other 20% already figured out - success and happiness are influenced by your BELIEF SYSTEM.

The importance of changing your beliefs: Your belief system (also known as your behavioral system) is the key factor that determines your level of self-esteem.  A negative belief system contributes to low self-esteem and will negatively impact every area of your life; how you view yourself, how you interact with others, how you manage our time, your ability to cope with change, your health, your success and so much more.  No matter what factors have played a role in undermining your confidence you DO have control over your belief system.  The key to reaching your highest potential in all areas of life involves:

• Awareness of your current beliefs and behaviors
• Determining which of your current beliefs and behaviors are hindering your ability to be whole
• Willingness to replace limiting beliefs and behaviors with healthy alternatives (this deck offers examples)
• Practicing new beliefs and behaviors until they become a habit and "stick!"
  

How the deck can enhance your life and your ability to live life to the fullest:  This particular deck was created to enhance your level of confidence.  As you swap limiting behavior with positive examples offered in this deck, you will immediately notice a change in your confidence level.  The more confident you become the more able you are to take control of your life, find genuine happiness and begin to achieve your goals.

The "brains" behind the deck:  A personal development coach created these cards after years of research and coaching clients with similar patterns.  Clients had difficulty achieving their goals.  They were stressed out, afraid of change and felt life had little to offer them.  The same limiting beliefs and behaviors began to surface, client after client.  Statements like "I hate what I see when I look in the mirror" or "I am filled with guilt over past mistakes" or "I am afraid of losing everything" were commonly heard.  Through providing her clients with a set of healthier beliefs and behaviors, the coach noticed the clients became more confident which resulted in their ultimate ability to achieve their goals.  This deck represents the 40 most common beliefs and behaviors concerning confidence that the creator had come across in her coaching practice. 

How to use the deck:  Each of the 40 cards has content on both sides; Confidence - Limiting behavior on one side of the card and Confidence-Building behavior on the reverse.  Begin by looking at the Confidence-Limiting side and determine if the statement in the box rings true for you.  Is the statement something you find yourself believing, saying or doing?  Or is it something you heard a to while growing up that may have gotten lodged in your subconscious mind?  If so, turn the card around to the Confidence-Building side and learn an alternative way to begin thinking or behaving.  How many of these Limiting behaviors are keeping you stuck?

 

The reverse side of each card offers a healthy alternative or Confidence-Building Behavior inside of the orange box.  These types of behaviors stem from a positive Belief System.  By training yourself to apply these beneficial beliefs, you will immediately notice an increase in your confidence level.  As your confidence level increases, everything in your life begins to feel better.  You'll experience a stronger physical and emotional state of mind.  You'll have an easier time making decisions, taking chance and trying new things.  Most importantly, life becomes a joy instead of a burden.  The "building" side of each card has a picture of a sun on it to remind you that this behavior will enhance your confidence.  

"There's magic in those cards!"  Some clients feel that the cards have a mind of their own and know exactly what the client needs to work on the most - they shuffle the cards and pick one, and chances are they almost always pick the card that reflects the belief that's been holding them back the most.  Some call this the Law of Attraction meaning the card you pull is attracted to your current thoughts and beliefs.  Give it a try!  This is a fun way to find out which belief you may need to replace the most!

On the Road to Confidence!  Congratulate yourself for taking the initiative to change the BS and claim your confidence!  Enjoy a wonderful and smooth journey on the open road that is your life!